{"id":1575,"date":"2025-04-10T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-04-10T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.prayandfaith.com\/?p=1575"},"modified":"2025-03-24T12:50:37","modified_gmt":"2025-03-24T15:50:37","slug":"god-unites-purposes-how-to-find-the-right-person-according-to-divine-will","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.prayandfaith.com\/en\/deus-une-propositos-como-encontrar-a-pessoa-certa-segundo-a-vontade-divina\/","title":{"rendered":"God unites purposes: how to find the right person according to God's will"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In a world where relationships seem increasingly fast, disposable and superficial, <strong>it's natural to wonder if there is still someone who has been prepared by God especially for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Is there really such a thing as the \"right person\"?<br>And if so, how do you know who she is?<br>More importantly, how do you wait for this meeting without getting lost along the way?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The answer may be simpler - and more profound - than you think: <strong>God doesn't just unite people. He unites purposes.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want a relationship that lasts, that makes sense, that grows in faith and maturity, <strong>you need to look for something greater than a simple emotional connection.<\/strong> You need to seek a relationship in line with God's plans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shall we talk about it calmly?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"996\" height=\"664\" src=\"https:\/\/www.prayandfaith.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-6.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1587\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.prayandfaith.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-6.png 996w, https:\/\/www.prayandfaith.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-6-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/www.prayandfaith.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-6-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/www.prayandfaith.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-6-18x12.png 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 996px) 100vw, 996px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Relationships that are born with purpose are different<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Everyone wants to love and be loved. But when love is based only on appearance, passing affinities or convenience, <strong>it doesn't stand the test of time.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Love born of purpose <strong>has deep roots<\/strong>. It is built not only on sentiment, but on mission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>It's when two people don't complete each other, but add up<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>When one helps the other to grow in faith, maturity and outlook on life<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>When the relationship brings the two closer to God - and doesn't push them apart<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Relationships like this aren't perfect. But they are <strong>planted in the right place, with the right intentions.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1# The right person isn't the ideal one - it's the aligned one<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is no such thing as a perfect person. But there are people who <strong>makes sense with what God has dreamed for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It's someone who:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Respect your process<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Walk in the same spiritual direction<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>It has similar values<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>It challenges you to grow - not to lose yourself<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Love God more than he loves you<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The right person <strong>is not the one who avoids conflicts<\/strong>but who faces the difficulties with you, side by side, under grace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2# God won't give you someone as long as you're just looking to fill a void<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many people want to find someone to feel complete, happy and validated. But true love <strong>cannot be born out of want.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Before God gives you someone, He wants you to <strong>understand your own value.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That you learn to:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Being well alone<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Loving your identity in Christ<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Taking care of your emotional health<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Become someone you yourself would admire<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>You don't have to be ready, but you do have to be willing.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3# When you seek God, He aligns your relationships<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seeking God's will <strong>it's not giving up on love - it's choosing the right love.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prayer changes your expectations.<br>Time with God changes your standards.<br>His presence changes your direction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.\" (Matthew 6:33)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you put God at the center, <strong>He begins to adjust everything around him - including his dates.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4# Relationships according to God have purpose before passion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yes, the heart races. The chemistry is there. So does the chill in the belly.<br>But <strong>it will all pass.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What sustains love in the long term <strong>it's not what you feel - it's what you build together.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that starts with purpose. With vision. With firm values.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The relationship that comes from God does:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Prayer at the beginning<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Respect in the middle<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Commitment on the journey<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Love that reflects the character of Christ<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>It's not a fairy tale. It's a daily choice.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5# Waiting for someone according to God is not standing still - it's getting ready<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Waiting is not sitting back.<br>It's investing in yourself. It's seeking healing. It's growing in faith.<br>It's becoming the answer to the prayer you once prayed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want someone with principles, be someone with principles.<br>If you want someone emotionally healthy, take care of your heart.<br>If you want a light relationship, live lightly with God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Waiting time is not wasted time - it's preparation time.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How do you know if someone comes from God?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is no \"magic sign\", but a few points can help you discern:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1# <strong>Do you walk in the same faith?<\/strong><br>You can't build together if everyone is going in one direction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2# <strong>Does the relationship bring you closer to or distance you from God?<\/strong><br>The love that comes from God <strong>brings you closer to Him.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">3# <strong>Is there peace, even with the challenges?<\/strong><br>God confirms with peace. Even when there are struggles, you feel firm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">4# <strong>Is there respect and emotional maturity?<\/strong><br>Without this, there is no foundation to stand on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">5# <strong>Do you pray together, dream together, grow together?<\/strong><br>Healthy relationships are partnerships - not competitions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What can you do until the right person arrives?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pray sincerely, not in a hurry<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Cultivate healthy and meaningful friendships<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Work on your traumas and insecurities<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Find contentment in your walk with God<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Trust that <strong>the right time is better than the fast time<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">God unites purposes - not just feelings<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And when He unites, <strong>nothing and no one can separate them.<\/strong><br>The relationship according to God is firm, even in storms.<br>It's full of grace, even in its flaws.<br>It is sustained by prayer, truth and presence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If today you still haven't found the right person, don't be discouraged.<br><strong>Keep seeking God - and let Him take care of the meetings.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The heart can wait, but <strong>the promise never fails.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>See also: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.prayandfaith.com\/en\/3-oclock-in-the-morning-prayer-for-grace\/\">3 a.m. prayer for grace<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">April 10th, 2025<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In a world where relationships seem increasingly fleeting, disposable, and superficial, it&#039;s natural to wonder if there is still someone God has specially prepared for you. Does a &quot;right person&quot; truly exist? And if so, how do you know who they are? 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